I knew I needed help inspiring my lad, so I went to the online source of infinite wisdom and ideas: Pinterest! Parenting, in my humble opinion, is much like teaching: other parents and teachers always have the BEST ideas. I cannot take credit for any of the following gems, but did want to pass on these new tricks that have helped tremendously. The difference is like night and day.
1. Create fun faces and shapes, etc. with their food.
This evening, our children enjoyed eating Pad Thai with us. Even the bell peppers and carrots were consumed without a problem! |
Something so simple made such a difference. All of a sudden a typical meal turned into a fun adventure with commentary like, “I’m going to eat the eyes first!” or “There goes the mouth!” It takes a maximum of two minutes for me to do this when serving the children lunch. They look forward to the silly face every time!
I found these plastic containers (that come with tops) at Dollar Tree. I believe they are sold 10 for $1.00. |
On the menu for lunch on this particular day: turkey slices, mandarins and string cheese. Easy peasy! |
The possibilities are endless! |
Each day right before lunch, my son asks, “What surprise are we eating today?!” Serving their food in separate containers has, for whatever reason, made them more excited about what they will eat. Since my boy will be attending school all day beginning next year, there is a strong possibility that I will be packing similar meals for him.
I also found the jumbo dice at Dollar Tree (2 for $1.00). It’s probably one of my favorite stores. |
Both my children enjoy rolling the jumbo dice on the table, counting the dots, and then taking as many bites from their food as they roll. Hooray for cross-curricular connections while eating! I know some people are very strict about what they allow on their tables during meals. On rare occasions, my son likes to bring toys to the table during lunch. If he eats his food, I allow it. I’m not a Nazi about it.
I like to use muffin tins (mini and regular) to make the small portions. I also don't serve their absolute favorite part of a meal, ex. French bread, until they have eaten a portion of their dinner. Even though it's part of the meal is still an earned reward. Oh and I use silicon muffin liners that are bright colors to divide up their food. One final tip, we have a eat with out hands meal every so often. And yes it's usually spaghetti, but bath comes right after. 😉
I like to use muffin tins (mini and regular) to make the small portions. I also don't serve their absolute favorite part of a meal, ex. French bread, until they have eaten a portion of their dinner. Even though it's part of the meal is still an earned reward. Oh and I use silicon muffin liners that are bright colors to divide up their food. One final tip, we have a eat with out hands meal every so often. And yes it's usually spaghetti, but bath comes right after. 😉
Those are great ideas to change it up 🙂 we will do silly faces every once in awhile. teddy bear toast is a favorite. Having a lunch picnic on the floor is sometimes a fun surprise. Or do a big shared plate with mom. Also I find that some days the kids eat more "samples" of the ingredients when I'm cooking vs when it's assembled on their plate so as I chop up veggies I usually call out "who wants a sample?" The only mealtime advice I have is the parent decides what to eat, when and where…the child decides how much. And similar to Michelle if there is part of the meal I know they will scarf down and ask for more helpings again and again (usually fruit) I will leave it off the plate and when they've eaten some of the other offerings I'll be like "oh, and grapes too".
I, too, love using muffin tins, especially for summer snacks! Thanks for sharing the "hands free" meal idea–I will definitely be trying that! 🙂
Always great to hear from you, Megan! I love the lunch picnic on the floor idea! And the samples will be a good challenge for when I am preparing food. I tend to be a "go play outside while mama cooks," kind of person. I hope you are well!